Thursday, February 6, 2014

I'v Have had a Hard Time Threw January (But I'll Be Better For February)

I realize its been a while.
Well to tell you the truth I'v been feeling kinda terrible, and it's already February.
This Post is for Ranting purposes, only because January was so terrible.
Ahhh...
So for privacy prepossess I'm not giving names or gender either.

So I'v been having a hard time at work. A Co-worker of mine has just been a complete A-hole.
I know it's terrible of me to say that and I usually am not this mean, But seriously guys, some of the things this person say's is like they are on drugs... And they have dirty finger nails, are always late for work, spends over half an hour in the bathroom, with loud music on. They are really inconsiderate of others.

Literally what they say when I was just doing my job, and asking about a report that wasn't finished the night before :
"U are bad person to set me up as irresponsible.! that is dark sided office politics.. i dont play that..sabotage stuff.."

and it goes on and on like this.

"..respect your elders ma'am. ur rude and sinister. others say you dont do anything to help them. clients, co-workers, etc. . "

Next text after I stopped Texting back :
 "i couldnt that was you at the meeting thursday. you mustve went dancing, after, to the club..right. i thought katty perry -look-alike housekeeper? Hmm? thats cool. then it was you..i do have bad eyes...though..lol...you did look hot as my team lead-supervisor. juzt a compliment, NOT a harrassment...my **friend says its  not flirtation either...LLOL"

Like NO! Not ok!

I'v never meet someone so crazy. I'm technically his super-visor as it says in the text. I always offer my help and I was the one who trained this co-worker. They have no respect for others.They have flung their body around like they are not in control of their body.
I'm literally so frustrated.
Also this has not been the first time they have harassed me, not to mention this Co-worker was already warned not to talk or text me. By The Manager of the establishment we work.

If you were interest in why I was dressed so nice for a work meeting, it was because I was in the processes of planning a funeral for a family member. After the meeting I was to head right to the church for more planning. Which, might I add, everyone of my co-workers was aware of because the manager let everyone know, so as not to upset me.

SO... to say someone is going out dancing after a meeting, when in fact they were aware I was going to a church, Not ok. Seriously does this person have short term memory loss....

I'v also let not just that Manager know, but the Managers Boss! They said it would be taken care of, and they would be talked with. Just this was mid way threw January and it is now February.

I have a right to be upset. At first I thought they were just going threw a phase because they were new and didn't understand most of what needed to be done. But now this person has been way out of line. I also reported that this co-worker touched my back and called me "hun", "darling", and "sweetie".

When those things happened I asked kindly not to call me those names, or to touch me.
When the Manager asked the co-worker, they said "she was freaking out for no reason, I touched he back, and called her a pet name" very defensively and scattered when talking.
The Manager said I was right in the situation. The co-worker was told it was inappropriate and it makes others feel uncomfortable, not just me.

I feel like I'v ranted enough for this post, and I feel like I haven't misinterpreted anything that happened, besides putting my opinion in. Keep in mind I'm also in a committed relationship, and maintain professional with co-workers, clients, and anyone that walks into the establishment where I work (including Family).
Some may say I'm cold hearted for treating my family like that at work. But my Manager commended me on how professional I was. That is how I grew up. I have no shame about that, and my family understand that about me.

If you read this long Rant thank you. I'd also like suggestions on how to continue on at work if nothing has been done. I like where I work, and I like my job, I just don't like this particular person.

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